Familiarity Breeds Contempt

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"Familiarity breeds contempt!"

How true is this proverb when it comes to understanding the relationship with self!!Knowing ourselves wholly is mostly destructive.

When we know everything about ourself,
We will stop learning,
We will stop prospering,
We will stop improving,
We will stop making mistakes,
We will avoid criticisms,
We will be stalled,
Slowly we will go into non-existence… 
So always knowing less of ourselves is the best way to keep growing and shining in our lives!!

Au revoir'
Irfa

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